... you can learn from:
Call Me By Your Name (2017)
Mr. Perlman: We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to make yourself feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!
I think I should just post a different chunk of Elio's father's speech for every Valentine's Day. By the time we're finished -- it's a long speech -- the world will probably be on fire, so at least we'll go down with grace. What else is there to know that he doesn't say in this speech? Nothing! Anyway I wasn't sure yet just how I was going to wish y'all a Happy V-Day today (or what movie I would be watching tonight) but then Sony went and tweeted the below and, well, was there ever gonna be any other option?.