... you can learn from:
Petra: You're with someone in a car or in a room and you want to say something, but you're afraid. Or you'd like to be affectionate but again you're afraid. You're afraid of losing points, of being the weaker one. It's a terrible moment when you can no longer go back and start again.
This is the third Life Lesson I have posted from this movie -- see the previous examples here and here -- which make sense since this movie is pretty much my field guide on How To Live. Anyway it's Margit Carstensen's 76th birthday today so I just wanna say thanks for the all the role modeling, Margit!