... you can learn from:
Lola: Did you love your wife very much?Von Bohm: I don't really know, perhaps. I came back from the war, and told myself: That's the woman I really love, otherwise I wouldn't have married her. But I didn't feel love. It was just... like the memory of love... Then she told me there was someone else, and for the first time since being back, I really felt something. Not love, but pain. I was thankful to my wife for teaching me how to feel again, even if it was pain.
A very happy 66th birthday to Barbara Sukowa today!
Look at this adorable picture of her with Fassbinder:
They look so young and innocent. Aww.